Tuesday 11 October 2011

The reasons why men cheat...



Cheating is an age long tradition and habit of men and believe me sometimes they do it because of their egos and not because they are being starved of love in the first place.                                                                
 So why do men cheat in relationships’ even though they all know that cheating is wrong?


v  When they are offered the chance to do it by a flirting female [men can hardly turn down things like this]

v   It boosts their ego.

v  The other woman appears not to be meeting his needs as he expected

v  As a way of revenge [men can sometimes revenge in several ways] if he is hurt by the spouse he may be sucked into the arms of another woman who is ready to submit to him. A man will also sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old fashioned sex'

v  You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner and into the arms of an adorable princess who has no problems with his ‘’Farting’’ etc…

v   If he falls out of love with you

v   If your sex life sucks as in you are close to being labeled a dead wood [men like collaborative sex] they want you to tell them, waow you are so great in bed...  Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
 Some men get tired of having rice for dinner every night and want to try pounded Yam laced with Dodo chips; this also goes for sex with other women. Hence men don't necessarily always cheat with prettier women, as long as she meets their needs, then she is welcome. [She doesn’t have to be more attractive than their partners]

v  If he has found you to be a softie, even if he is caught again like you have always caught him, you will end up forgiving him and it all ends with a great make up sex.
     Conclusion: Men are more complex than you imagine and believe me they are smarter if you are smart, they are like the proverbial crocodile that ends up shedding a few tears when it swallows up its victims.

BUT please note that no reason is good enough reason to CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE AND HURT THE OTHER PERSON, s life.
IF YOU ARE NO MORE INTERESTED IN THE REALTIONSHIP [IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED] then disengage honorably before you start cheating on her, and take the care to choose well the next time so that you don’t end up being a serial courtier.

Other Reasons can be
The Devil
Bad friends
Family background
Stress at home…… the woman “beats” the man [and is actually the breadwinner of the home]
Sympathy from outside…..

ΓΌ  Please Note that this is not saying that Men are always right or even right when they cheat, but pls. use this information well to your advantage.

You can add other reasons if you like.
Stay tuned for the REAL REASONS WHY WOMEN CHEAT TOO…..

Heartflowz…